Please help me!

sadman · 10-08-2007, 12:34 PM

Hello,

I have a girlsfriend for about a year now. I suspects she's having strange conversations with others on MSN.
I know her email and pass of MSN. Is there a way that I can see/log her conversations?

Thank you so much!

Bagi Zoltán · 10-08-2007, 01:01 PM

I'm sorry to tell you but i doupt that there would be any way to spy her chat.

midlandi · 10-08-2007, 01:14 PM

It can be done, BUT it is breaking the law. So i suggest you dont.

sadman · 10-08-2007, 01:18 PM

Could you please tell me how via PM? Thank you!

fellowknowbest · 10-08-2007, 03:16 PM

why bother ? just ask her straight out. If you can't trust her then there is more serious problems than her talking to strangers on MSN.

gizmoya · 10-09-2007, 03:32 AM

the best sulution to know is INSTALL A KELOGGER IN HER PC and whenever she will chat or email next you can get all details from keylogger...

but why man ??? i mean try to ask here, anyway its you personal and may be you have doubt so its better to clear it then ask...

try kelogger and wait till she will chat next
install it and make it invisible in taskbar and keep it activated and in statup

jumpenjuhosaphat · 10-09-2007, 05:16 AM

Really? This is a webmaster forum, not a "How to unethically stalk my girlfriend" forum....Moved to general discussion.

Stratis · 10-10-2007, 05:40 PM

Dude that is invasion of privacy I wouldnt like someone to do that to me.

OldWelshGuy · 10-10-2007, 07:03 PM

I had a girl friend (as in a friend who was female) and she was convinced her husband was having an affair. I installed a key stroke logger for her and he was. She asked him but he denied it.

I see it as no different to having a private detective, but there is ABSOLUTELY no way I would use one on my family, and I told my friend that, but she wanted to and did. They are now divorced.

swiftmed · 10-10-2007, 11:23 PM

yes, you can set msn to automatically record conversations for you in the options menu. you can then view those conversations in my documentts > my received files > chat logs,

also you could set yourself up a fake name and add her and just pretend you are any other guy, start chatting her up, and see whether she comes on to you or shows an interest. that will then show you that she is capable of flirting with other guys over the internet

but personally, it would be much better to confront her about it. communication is very important in relationships

Resonate · 10-11-2007, 12:10 AM

Just get yourself round town with your mates & get in there before she does hehehe.

As swiftmed said you can log the conversation, but select the txt file the log is saved to & change it to a hidden file then it will secretly log the talks.

disclamer: I do not condone or commit any offences mentioned above neither do i suggest you do it if you wish to live

jumpenjuhosaphat · 10-11-2007, 04:39 AM

My opinion on the matter is this: If you don't feel like you can trust her, then you are either probably doing something wrong yourself that makes you untrustworthy, or you are looking for a reason either to not be happy, or to leave her. If you don't have any real reason, like some person calling at 2:00 am (male usually) asking to speak with her, or seeing her laugh and having drinks while rubbing some other guys arm hair, then I think that perhaps you should re-evaluate the situation.

Resonate · 10-11-2007, 10:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jumpenjuhosaphat

My opinion on the matter is this: If you don't feel like you can trust her, then you are either probably doing something wrong yourself that makes you untrustworthy, or you are looking for a reason either to not be happy, or to leave her. If you don't have any real reason, like some person calling at 2:00 am (male usually) asking to speak with her, or seeing her laugh and having drinks while rubbing some other guys arm hair, then I think that perhaps you should re-evaluate the situation.

lol

jumpenjuhosaphat
iwebtool moderator & family mediation services

Kashwak · 10-12-2007, 01:16 AM

i agree man dont do it. just be up front and talk to her about it. cause if you dont have trust you dont have anything.

jumpenjuhosaphat · 10-12-2007, 05:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Resonate

lol

jumpenjuhosaphat
iwebtool moderator & family mediation services

That has a nice ring to it....

10-08-2007, 12:34 PM	#1
sadman Newcomer Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 2	Please help me! Hello, I have a girlsfriend for about a year now. I suspects she's having strange conversations with others on MSN. I know her email and pass of MSN. Is there a way that I can see/log her conversations? Thank you so much!

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gizmoya Smurf Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 23	Re: Please help me! the best sulution to know is INSTALL A KELOGGER IN HER PC and whenever she will chat or email next you can get all details from keylogger... but why man ??? i mean try to ask here, anyway its you personal and may be you have doubt so its better to clear it then ask... try kelogger and wait till she will chat next install it and make it invisible in taskbar and keep it activated and in statup __________________ Read the signature rules!

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10-10-2007, 05:40 PM	#8
Stratis Newcomer Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 10	Re: Please help me! Dude that is invasion of privacy I wouldnt like someone to do that to me.

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OldWelshGuy iWEBTOOL SEO Advisor Contributor Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 675	Re: Please help me! I had a girl friend (as in a friend who was female) and she was convinced her husband was having an affair. I installed a key stroke logger for her and he was. She asked him but he denied it. I see it as no different to having a private detective, but there is ABSOLUTELY no way I would use one on my family, and I told my friend that, but she wanted to and did. They are now divorced. __________________ Umbrella Consultancy Internet Marketing Company - Rugby Forum - Google Expert Blog

10-10-2007, 11:23 PM	#10
swiftmed Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Plymouth, United Kingdom Posts: 342	Re: Please help me! yes, you can set msn to automatically record conversations for you in the options menu. you can then view those conversations in my documentts > my received files > chat logs, also you could set yourself up a fake name and add her and just pretend you are any other guy, start chatting her up, and see whether she comes on to you or shows an interest. that will then show you that she is capable of flirting with other guys over the internet but personally, it would be much better to confront her about it. communication is very important in relationships __________________ Kind Regards, Andy MacDonald SEO & Marketing Tips for Webmasters \| Logo Design

10-11-2007, 12:10 AM	#11
Resonate Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: A Remote server Posts: 225	Re: Please help me! Just get yourself round town with your mates & get in there before she does hehehe. As swiftmed said you can log the conversation, but select the txt file the log is saved to & change it to a hidden file then it will secretly log the talks. disclamer: I do not condone or commit any offences mentioned above neither do i suggest you do it if you wish to live __________________ Seo Consultancy W3Seo Search engine optimization & Web development forums

10-11-2007, 04:39 AM	#12
jumpenjuhosaphat Forum Admin Contributor Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Denver Posts: 4,459	Re: Please help me! My opinion on the matter is this: If you don't feel like you can trust her, then you are either probably doing something wrong yourself that makes you untrustworthy, or you are looking for a reason either to not be happy, or to leave her. If you don't have any real reason, like some person calling at 2:00 am (male usually) asking to speak with her, or seeing her laugh and having drinks while rubbing some other guys arm hair, then I think that perhaps you should re-evaluate the situation. __________________ Storage Sheds Lost Forum

10-12-2007, 01:16 AM	#14
Kashwak Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Tulsa, oklahoma Posts: 66	Re: Please help me! i agree man dont do it. just be up front and talk to her about it. cause if you dont have trust you dont have anything.

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